The playbook for the person everyone leans on, the one who never drops the ball, and who's starting to wonder what all that holding up is costing them.
This is the full method for working out what's genuinely yours to carry and what's just habit dressed up as necessity, plus every situation that comes up once you're the one everyone quietly counts on.
It's not an argument against being reliable, that's a genuinely rare and valuable trait. It's the actual method I use with clients for working out which parts of their workload are real structural work and which parts are just habit nobody's ever tested, plus real scripts for the moments that come up again and again once you're the answer to "who can we always count on".
If you're the one who gets the Sunday night call, the query with no note attached because you'll simply know, this was written with you specifically in mind. None of it asks you to become less dependable, just less unpaid about it.
What this is worth: twenty-two quid is less than an hour of a coach's time, and about the same as a round of drinks you didn't actually want to buy for the team. One boundary held instead of caved on, one Sunday evening you don't lose to someone else's fire drill, or one stretch project you put yourself forward for instead of covering for it again, and this has paid for itself a hundred times over before you've finished the worksheet. It won't feel like a big purchase. It might turn out to be one anyway.
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